10 THINGS I LEARNT FROM THE NARCISSISTS
Narcissists and Empaths have things that they could learn from each other, with the difference that a narcissist thinks they know it all. Narcissists have a sense of entitlement and superiority that Empaths don’t have.
Narcissists think that they are perfect and, if something is wrong, it’s you. So they won’t actually take any input from you because they believe they are like a God on Earth. There’s no point even trying to teach them anything, but we can take some teachings from them, because Empaths are open minded and are able to look at things from another person's perspective.
Empaths, unlike narcissists, are able to adopt a new way of thinking.
Here is a list of things that I learnt from the narcissists I have encountered in my life, and there have been many!
I deserve the best
I am worthy of love
I am confident
I have to put myself first
I need to support myself
I want money and success
I am a Goddess
I am beautiful
I am clever
I am capable
The list can definitely go on.
These are not affirmations, by the way. If you need to write affirmations for yourself, that means you actually don’t believe those things are true, and you’re trying to convince yourself until you eventually start to believe them. I FEEL deeply within myself the 10 things I listed above.
Another difference, in comparison to a narcissist, is that it took me a long time to reach this level of self-acceptance and self-love. I don’t say these things with arrogance and it took a lot of bullying, gaslighting and fitting around crappy situations in order to finally understand my worth. I learned to assert myself and my needs. I developed stronger boundaries.
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